“Here is my secret. It’s quite simple. One sees clearly only with the heart. Anything essential is invisible to the eye.”

— Antoine St. Exupery, The Little Prince

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  • Les Etudes

    “Courage, Nicholas,” I tell him, “You have what it takes.” “No worries,” I say to my student who forgot his online tutoring lesson. “Pas de probléme. I’ve had five seniors. I know what that looks like.” And I did and I do. He is banging out college apps and common apps and living the life Continue reading

  • A Crucible

    For the most part, Will has left his world intact. His room is tidy and tended, not stripped bare but definitely looking recently departed, with a burst of packaging and wrappers overflowing the wastebasket from his recent shopping – new underwear, deodorant, clothes they asked for on the packing list. The packing list crowns the Continue reading

  • Dearie

    She had the last word, after all. Researching my paternal grandmother–my step-grandmother, actually, as my father’s mother died of breast cancer when I was only one–I came across the crowning glory of her life. For some women, it is children. Increasingly, I’m told, it will not be this way. Going forward. But it has been Continue reading

  • Travels with Mommy, Part I

    I am happy to report that the tricks and trades of the budget traveler still work out there, and I have discovered one more: the panini check. Like a coat check. But involving a left-over sandwich. Our story begins on day two. Sophie and I are safely arrived in Padua, Ellie’s university town. We’re jet Continue reading

  • The Shake Down

    She’s standing there with a knife in her hands, shaking it at me she’s so angry. Tense moment #567 in the span of so many throughout this impossible situation, though most of them not involving weapons. “It doesn’t work that way! This is not the way the world WORKS! MOM! She is not only exasperated Continue reading

  • Busy on the Inside

    December 2022 Got my holiday FOMO in high gear again this year, feeling sad and torn over the lovely holiday events and activities going on that we won’t attend. Too busy, too behind, too stressed, and too much dealing with the “extra curricular” of life to enjoy the seasonal fun. Facebook feeds it, of course, Continue reading

  • Sounds and Lights

    December 2024 I’ve been searching for the funny story. Pets, tents, holes, and house disrepair notwithstanding, the humor fodder is thin this year. Don’t get me wrong, there is much behind us. But not that you put in a Christmas letter. Nobody wants to read about the water heater going out a week before the Continue reading

  • The Harvest

    I think I roasted the squash just for spite. Or a distraction—something else to gripe about, something to take her mind off the many things I hadn’t done right in the short time I was there. Too much tomato in the recipe. Not enough water in the soup. The recycling “system” botched. The coffee not Continue reading

  • Resale

    It’s called the Burk Emporium for a reason. After near 30 years in the same house, two attics, three sheds, and one well-appointed garage, we have one of everything on the planet. If not, we can surely procure one for you. And this year—well, it’s been a year of stuff. For one, middle age has Continue reading

  • Perfetto

    On the fifth floor of the Italian consulate building in Philadelphia, the AC has gone out. Someone has opened a window near the elevators, an odd choice on a hot day as it is a huge window, about waist high all the way to the enormous ceiling high overhead, and there is no screen. The Continue reading